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At the moment I am writing this to you, the world is confusing, chaotic, and inevitably catastrophic.

We are all globally facing a flummoxing, unyielding and dangerous pandemic unlike anything we have had to face before.

In spite of all of our technology, we are unable (at least right now) to halt it from spreading, or tame this menace with a vaccine.

It doesn’t help when world leaders minimize or simply lie about its horrible effects.

It doesn’t help when governments are not protecting their citizens and have failed us not only in this pandemic but as champions for our basic civil rights in other matters as well.


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Even in calmer and healthier times, wars appear, riots ensue, heroes are murdered, people suffer.

I was reading a diary of mine recently, written from another era altogether, and in it I wrote my lamentations of what was happening then. Not a pandemic, but other horrible catastrophic events pummeling our planet and people and which I felt powerless to do anything about.

Things really don’t change.

In the past few posts, I mentioned some things writers can do to bolster themselves as individuals during stressful times—the “interesting times” that we are facing, have faced, and will, no doubt face again.

Among them are taking naps and getting enough sleep, eating well, exercising and writing only if it’s not painful to do so.

Reading is good relaxing therapy, as is watching movies simply to mentally escape for the moments when we need an out.

But as writers, we can also find solace with each other.


Most of us are solitary types, so finding a community is difficult, awkward, and frustrating especially when writer-oriented events like conferences or in person author readings have been limited or eliminated because of the pandemic.

The positive side is that whenever anything is happening for writers and by writers, it’s because it’s all online now.

If you are not connected to a writer’s Facebook page, or to one that is associated with a writing group or organization, why not join one?

Facebook and other platforms will advertise online events that you can join and meet other people–virtually.

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Recently, I attended a delightful online event featuring a new author being interviewed by a host celebrating a book party and happy hour. Several folks attended and we introduced ourselves and engaged in talking with the host and writer.

It was great fun since we all brought our own special beverages and everyone was friendly, engaged and the book in question was fascinating.

But if meeting and socializing with others even online is still as awkward and painful as it is for many of us shy types, then join online events where you are the audience and not the participants.

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Photo: Wynn Pointaux 

There are many, many authors’ readings and interviews happening every day everywhere.

One such event was my attending an interview for a wonderful poet and photographer who also did a reading from her new book.

Another poet and friend, was featured on a reading with local writers and environmental activists taking turns reading and discussing their various works.

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These events are usually free and sometimes the hosts will share recordings with registered viewers who could not attend live.

Because so many libraries and writers’ centers are on lock-down, find out what they are offering online since this is now the “new normal” (a phrase that is quickly becoming a cliché) in which writers are in touch with their readers and with other writers.

And if you are simply in need to talk to other writers, why not start a group of your own?

Zoom is free and if you have a website or Facebook page, you can certainly advertise an invitation and shout out to so many, many writers who, like yourself, seek some sanity in these crazy times.

Here are some terrific online events for writers:

Brad King’s Happy Hour & Book Club (Brad also hosts the podcast, “THE DOWNTOWN WRITERS JAM PODCAST:):

Gotham Writer’s Workshop: Free Zoom events including interviews with writers and agents, plus “write-ins” and more:

The Mount (the American writer Edith Wharton’s home in Lenox, MA) offers many online events with writers: ASACEgKItPD_BwE

The New York Times editors host conversations with writers on their Book Review Live events:

Writing guru Jane Friedman hosts a free bi-monthly “Sunday Business Sermon” on writing and publishing: and

Writing Wisdom:

“One doesn’t know, till one is a bit at odds with the world, how much one’s friends who believe in one rather generously, mean to one.”—D.H. Lawrence,” British Fiction Writer, Poet.

Cheers, Irene

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I may have mentioned (perhaps too often), that I have been rehabbing my house.

New carpeting, floor tiles and kitchen cabinets were installed, and all the walls painted among other massive construction changes.

Before the contractors came with their measuring tapes and tools, I had to denude the house of all my household items—furniture, appliances and personal things such as my books, and artwork and of course my writings that I hid for years in the bowels of filing cabinets.

There was a major time constraint, so I shoved everything in boxes and bags and deposited it all in storage lockers.

Only now am I slowly returning things from storage to my newly (and unrecognizable) beautified house, and able to go through the many boxes I packed away months ago.

Recently, I explored a cache of boxes filled with my old manuscripts—the ones that were buried and forgotten.

I cringed.

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I was reluctant to go through them. I wanted to return the yellowed bundles of typed paper back to their cardboard coffins and forget about all of my, as I called them, “little failures.”

But after a while, my curiosity over took my reluctance.

What did I write and how bad was it really?

There were boxes of many, many early drafts of short stories and novels beginning from when I was a graduate student in creative writing.

Those were of course pretty bad.

And then there were the later years of working on more fiction that for one reason or another did not make it into print or even completion.

Then there was another box—the one I feared opening up the most.

All of my rejections!

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And boy, there were plenty of those to seep through.


I won’t lie—it was depressing to go through the boxes filled with unsuccessful attempts at honing a very difficult art and craft.

It was disheartening to reread the usually terse, robotic responses to the work I had sent out to editors and agents with great hopes and optimism, only to be shattered and dismissed.

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Graphic: Pete Linforth

Rejections are never easy, and it doesn’t get easier even when time passes.


But once I got over the cringey feelings, I saw that some of the rejection letters were actually helpful in their criticisms and a few even encouraging.

I read them over with more emotional detachment.

Then I plowed on to the old manuscripts I was especially curious over. The ones I had worked on for a long time and nothing came of them.

What was wrong with these stories? Why were they rejected?

And more to the point—are they salvageable?

Many of the manuscripts were written when I was much younger and unrecognizable in the ways I write now.

At least with age comes more experience and I hope, wisdom. And so as I reread the lost manuscripts, I was able to quickly isolate the rookie mistakes in the crafting of the stories.

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I saw how some chapters were so dull that they should be edited out and the rest tightened up.

I zeroed in on the poor meandering dialogues and muddled characters.

I also acknowledged that I was writing in a style that was another writer’s and not really my own.

It actually felt good to face my failures and give it another try. Not all of my little failures will have another chance, but there was some good writing despite the amateurish attempts and I picked out the ones I wanted to rehash again.

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Image: Marta Kulesza

Maybe I shouldn’t call them failures at all. I should embrace the fact that all of the writing I did were stepping stones to improving and evolving my art.


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Malcolm Gladwell in his enticing book, OUTLIERS, THE STORY OF SUCCESS mentions something called the “10,000-Hour Rule” which in order to achieve success in anything, that amount of time must be put into the work first.

I’m not sure that’s entirely true. Looking over my boxes of past works, I know I put in more than 10,000 hours.

But after resurrecting a few of the manuscripts and promoting them as possible projects again, I am eager to give it attention, time and maybe another life but with a different and more discerning eye.

And yes it may take another 10,000 hours, but then that’s what writers do, isn’t it?

We are magnetically drawn to our work and if there is a glimmer of possibility that we can once again mold it into something worthy for the world, then we will return like the prodigal souls we are, and give it another try.

Of course, we may be hurt and disillusioned again and again. That’s a given.

But we are also eternal optimists if we truly believe in our work especially when no one else cares.

And we try again.

Writing Wisdom:

“I work hard, I work very hard. All the books at least 30 revisions.”
― Ha Jin, Chinese-American Poet, Novelist

Cheers, Irene

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If you study the marketplace for publishing stories, there are anthologies and other opportunities for young writers.

Granta, the British publication, famously publishes its pick of 20 best novelists who are under the age of 40.

Many writing contests are also geared for even younger writers as are grants and applications to places at artists’ colonies.

Nearly all the major magazines including online ones are on the lookout for the next new thing and will entice young and so called “emerging” writers to submit their work.

Alas, if you happened to be a writer, and a fiction writer at that, over 40, the opportunities diminish.

In fact, the term “emerging writer” tends to mean someone who is a young’un and has yet to be discovered.

And yes, there are writers who have not been successful or haven’t gained fame until they reached their mature age—Frank McCourt, Vladimir Nabokov, Raymond Chandler, and of course the novelist Helen Hooven Santmyer, author of  “…AND LADIES OF THE CLUB” who published that blockbuster in her 80s!

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But unfortunately those mature writers are the very few who succeed as literary rock stars.

What it comes down to is that publishing is a business. A tough business.

And like a business that depends on customers and fans, it needs to entice readers and interest by showcasing the newest talents.

They are busily seeking out fresh voices in books and stories which they assume that only young writers (and young people) can write about.

They—the publishers, editors and gatekeepers of the literary world are not always right about that!

Most of the time, young writers, because they simply have not had the long view insight of being alive and experiencing much in their lives, cannot bring the same depth of characters and plots to their work.

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Photo: Alex Wilcom

Certainly, there are truly magnificent young writers on the scene today that show that artistic maturity. I could name many and I heartily endorse their work.

But I wager that the slush piles at publishers’ desks are strewed with manuscripts with scribbled half-baked themes and contrived characters with no real story behind them.

Older writers have the wealth of experiencing life in many of its usually difficult facets and unexpected twists which they can bring into their stories.

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I remember that I gave a reading to a college writing class, and afterwards, a student said that he had trouble writing a story that seemed realistic.


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I told him, that he alas, has not yet been challenged enough by life.

That may happen sooner for instance if someone has to go to war, or is uprooted by say, family circumstances at a young age.

But usually, even when something significant or catastrophic or shattering happened to a young person, it may take years for a perspective and insight to yield itself into a remarkable and deeply felt story.

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Photo: Matej

I’m not saying that all writers who take up writing in their later years automatically become great ones—not at all.

It takes enormous energy, time, and focus to forge a writing talent plus unwavering tenacity to learn how to craft and hone a great story no matter what age.

But I am saying that as with many businesses, older people will face discrimination when they try to sell their work.

It’s already ingrained into our American consciousness that old people are inept at things—technology, politics, fashion, life…

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Photo: Andrea Piacquadio

Listen to how often you hear late-night comedians mock old people in their monologues.

The older I get the more sensitive and less humorous I find these jokes.

Look at the ubiquitous advertisements online and in the streets, and you won’t see many older people at all featuring the products or brands.

And look at the book photos of newly published works by the rising stars—how old are they? Anybody over 40?

So if you are an older person who has been writing without much fanfare, or one who is about to write for the first time, be aware that the marketplace, like so much of our society, is an ageist one.

But don’t let that stop you!If you need to write, and if this is the best time in your life to do it, then do it!

Forget the naysayers.

Applaud the new talent. But also applaud yourself for emerging into your own amazing talent and unique voice which age, experience and wisdom has nurtured and revealed.


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Photo: Tojo Tantely

As we used to say: “you’ve come a long way, baby!”

For encouragement and inspiration here is a list of late blooming writers:

Writing Wisdom:

“You are never too old to set another goal or to dream a new dream.” —Aristotle, Greek Philosopher, Writer, Polymath

Cheers, Irene

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There is a wonderful documentary making the rounds called THE BOOKSELLERS.

It’s about exactly what the title suggests: people who love and sell books, mostly antiquarian ones.

But they would never have gotten into the business if they hadn’t first of all fallen in love with books.

The documentary interviews booksellers from New York, mostly those who have been in the business from fifty years ago or more. Many inherited their book stores, while others fell into becoming booksellers because of their addiction to books.

For a book nerd like myself, I found it thrilling to watch the booksellers talk about their pasts and the intrepid hunt for books they owned and sold.

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How amazing and actually a bit dizzying to see walls and walls of books waiting patiently for a buyer to take home with them! They probably will be orphaned for life.


I remember so many independent book stores in the cities I visited throughout my life. Because I grew up in Chicago —well before the chain bookstores were in operation and barracudaed their way into devouring and putting these stores out of business, I had access to a variety of book stores.

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Photo: Future Primitive

My favorites were the used book stores where I lingered without pushy salespeople, while listening to the classical or jazz music piping through the stereo speakers ubiquitously sitting on the counter-top.

Sometimes the smell of bean-crushed coffee wafted from a back room meant for the employees. Or the smell of Indian incense dimming the already dimmed light fixtures circulated everywhere including the book covers which still held that scent well after one bought the book and brought it home.

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Growing up in that major cultural city, I assumed that every American town had at least one wonderful book store.

Of course that was an illusion because even now the chain book stores are faring badly or have themselves been put out of business by online marketing.

This was the lament I heard by the booksellers in the documentary.

It was sad to hear them admit that their business, their obsession, their Holy Grails of books were no longer viable or desired by an appreciative public.

One bookseller mentioned that books, even antique ones, were not valued as highly as visual art.

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Photo: Fritz_the_Cat

A first publication of a Charles Dickens novel will probably never fetch as high an auction price as say a pop art drawing by Andy Warhol.

What does that say about us as a society?

I like Warhol enough, but out of the two, I would rather have the first edition of a Dickens book if I was able to even contemplate or afford attending an auction of that sort.

Recently, several of my friends have mentioned that in their older ages, they are discarding their personal libraries—books they had lovingly purchased and collected since they were in high school.

The reasons: too cumbersome and dusty to keep, many are downsizing their homes, the books have deteriorated, and the most important reason—no one reads them anymore.

If anyone still reads, it’s probably online via e-books.

I understand this and have even joined in the purging of my own many, many books.

I also read many e-books since they are so inexpensive and far easier to carry around when traveling.

But I miss the physical comforts of a book with pages I can dog-ear and mark up with a real pen and hold in my hands like a lost child cuddling a stuffed animal.

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Space and time are the culprits. And yet, with each wormy, faded book I had to throw into the recycling bin, I took a moment to recall with great vividness, which book store I found it in and what was my life like when I bought it.

Every book was a photographic link to the past, every author an unwitting teacher who helped to develop my writing skills.

These little deaths were emotional tugs. It was practical, but painful to do.

There aren’t many book stores anymore in the world except perhaps in bigger cities and towns and that is a pity.

But in THE BOOKSELLERS, there are younger booksellers featured who are optimistic that book stores will continue to proliferate beyond online sales.

I hope so.

I still yearn for the days when I can go to one, browse through shelves of fiction especially, then sit in a lumpy armchair (another feature of the best book stores), and become acquainted with the books I might buy to read, and savor, and learn from.

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Photo: SeaReeds


As of this writing, THE BOOKSELLERS has been online streaming via various theaters. Check your area to see where and how it’s playing. Here is the trailer:

If you are discarding your books, here are some places to donate yours:

And certainly consider approaching a local used book seller in your area as well. Maybe buy a few for old times’ sake?

Writing Wisdom:

“There are worse crimes than burning books. One of them is not reading them.”—Joseph Brodsky, Russian and American Poet and Essayist

Cheers, Irene

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Besides fiction, I read a lot of how to write fiction books.

I also read a lot of self-help and motivational books to keep me writing.

But like all writers, or anyone who does anything creative without immediate rewards or accolades or even notice, I wonder why am I doing this?


It’s very much like a close relationship or love affair that has become mundane and dull.

There are times when the creative well is dry, the desire to create diminished. and the passion from our creative endeavors lie dormant and is practically gone.

We simply don’t get the same excited, burning quest we had when we first proclaimed to ourselves and the world whether out loud or in print that we are writers.

It might be fatigue. We’re just too darn tired.

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As solitary and internal as it is, it takes enormous amounts of focus and energy to create well…anything, especially a story from scratch.

When you think about it, in our stories we are creating original worlds, people, events, conflicts, situations, resolutions, transformations, awareness, and entertainment too.

That’s a lot!

And it starts with your ideas and visions to put it all together in a well-crafted, credible and intriguing story.

For many, life is already overwhelming and we are fatigued with everything including writing.

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Photo: Gared Altmann

Or the story isn’t coming through because we are bored with the characters and the whole scenario.

It’s perfectly fine to take a break.

Take a rest from writing for a week, but no more.

You may not come back to the work, or to writing at all.

Would that be so bad?

I am not discouraging you—that would be very disingenuous on my part. I feel my role is to provide encouragement and support to everyone who wants and tries to write stories, especially literary fiction.

But again, when it’s easier to leave then come back, perhaps writing isn’t for you after all—just like a love affair or friendship that has run its course and there is nothing left to give to keep it going.

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Photo: Krzysztof Kamil

Okay. It happens.

Then let me ask you this.

How do you feel?

If you are truly happier by not writing, that’s a perfect sign to alert you that you should be doing other things.

But what if you instead are irritated? Depressed? Snapping at others for no real reason?

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Photo: Jackie Ramirez

Hmm, chances are that you miss writing after all. And need to come back.

Start again with the old work. Or start a brand new story.

Feeling better?

Now let’s say you are back to writing after a hiatus.

But now you are procrastinating—so easy to do!  This happens to creative people all the time as well.

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You made the commitment to write again, but somehow you are not showing up at the screen or your notebook.

Then ask yourself these questions:

Why is this story important to write? Why is it important for me?

What would happen to me if I don’t write it? Especially my well-being.

How will I feel six months from now if I don’t write? A year? The rest of my life?

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Photo: Lucia Grzeskiewicz

What can I do to show up at my writing space for X amount of time every day? What rewards can I give myself?

More to the point—what would happen if I complete this story? How would I feel? What will it do for my well-being?

What will give me more satisfaction and happiness? Writing at least a page, a chapter, or X amount of words each day? Starting another story, editing the one I am working on?

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Graphic: Myriam Zilles

Or watching television, eating high-caloric foods, or some other non-writing activity?

Certainly binge-watch the programs you enjoy, and eat desserts too all in good measure, but make those the rewards and not the excuse for avoiding to write.

You will feel less guilty and more empowered if you spent quality time writing. Maybe binge-writing too.

You alone hold the answers and you know best whether or not writing is your destiny.

You will know if you can or cannot live without it.

Writing Wisdom:

“When I discover who I am, I’ll be free.” —Ralph Ellison, American Fiction Writer, Literary Critic.

Cheers, Irene

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As of this post, we are still in the midst of a global pandemic.

If you are reading this at the same or nearly the same time, I hope you are safe and well and we all get through this together.

If this has long passed (fingers crossed) whenever you do read this, then let’s openly breathe a collective sigh without our facemasks. We survived! We’re alive!

For most writers, being sequestered isn’t such a huge sacrifice during times of crisis. We are used to, and even crave solitude to seriously approach and delve deeply into our work.

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Photo: Ibrahim Bernal

We truly need solo times to physically write, and mentally process the stories we are creating.

But solitude and isolation—even if we are quarantined with family members, can also be a trial if we are forced indoors for long stretches of time.

What’s a writer to do?

The same things you would do on a normal day.

Spend time writing. Spend more time writing.

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But then do other things that will help you to stay strong, and avoid depression and frustration.

Sleep more. Even if you are feeling well, remember we are all collectively stressed by the news of this hovering menace. Sleep is nurturing and will replenish our energy levels and help us deal with the next bulletins.

Exercise. Try to do 15-30 minutes. It will help boost your energy and immune system. Go online for videos—there are so many to choose from including walking-in-your home type exercises.

Houghton_AC85.Aℓ194L.1869_pt.2aa_-_Little_Women,_titleRead more. Sure, you can read the classic pandemic literature like Albert Camus’ THE PLAGUE, and Gabriel Garcia Marquez’s LOVE IN THE TIME OF CHOLERA, but maybe try lighter fare?

As for me, I’m reading (for the first time in its entirety) LITTLE WOMEN. It’s a bit preachy at times, but I am finding the novel refreshing and comforting because it’s from another era even though I saw several movie versions. No wonder it’s an enduring classic!

Some online free books: Project Gutenberg (classics), and the Internet Archives (borrowing books online and more)

Of course listen to important news updates, but turn it off too. Watch comedies instead. Watch movies about writers too. Here is a list:

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Music is a balm. I’ve discovered so much on YOUTUBE and here is my latest find, Brian Eno’s THURSDAY AFTERNOON: (one of many versions).

I find it soothing when I write. I find it soothing when I’m not writing.

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Photo: Who-Alice Moore

I’m also listening to the pop music I grew up with and which still makes me happy, plus online concerts by classical orchestras too.

Call or email friends and family to stay in touch. Don’t forget your writer friends.

If you are in a writer’s group, keep it going virtually. Or join one.

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Photo: Gerd Altmann

There are so many wonderful virtual activities for writers and other creatives to meet online and share—I even participated in a virtual book launch and for another event, a writers’ “happy hour.”

Do a home-based chore that you were putting off. I have a garage that needs a good cleaning. I will follow my own advice—soon.

What else can you do that will ease your spirit while sequestered? Knitting? Meditating? Pedicures? Crossword puzzles? Singing? Combing the fur of a family pet?

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Photo: Orna Wachman

By all means stay alert and vigilant to the precarious changing situation in your environment, and above all stay safe.

But remember to take time to decompress and unstress.

And if all you can do is quietly sit and not do much at all, then let that be your coping mechanism.

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Photo: Wei Zhu

Then decide on what is important for you to do next.

It may be turning to the writing.

Writing Wisdom:

“Suddenly you’re ripped into being alive. And life is pain, and life is suffering, and life is horror, but by God you’re alive and it’s spectacular.”—Joseph Campbell, American Writer, Orator, Academic.

Stay safe, Irene

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In a previous post (CRICKETS AND TUMBLEWEEDS, also posted on my website on October 28, 2018 ), I mentioned how hard it is for a writer to sustain and continue to believe in one’s work when the publishing world is not supportive, receptive, and giving it space in their publications or welcoming it with a book contract.

In that post, I mentioned various strategies for coping when your writing is rejected including giving yourself time away from the work, or working on other stories before returning to that unpublished story with fresh eyes.

Another suggestion was to share your work with a writer’s group or with people you trust and who can offer honest and helpful feedback about the work and ways it might be improved before resubmission.

All good time-proven advice for focusing on the work and making it stronger and better.

But what do writers do to keep themselves strong and productive when nobody is supporting you as the writer?

For most writers, quiet alone time is necessary to write and rewrite. It’s also the time to think and read and research and plot and dream and mull over the stories in our minds if not on the page.

Also for many, being a writer is not a common or acceptable calling.


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Instead of feeling supportive, encouraged, cheered on and most importantly, accepted, the writer’s nearest and dearest (friends, family, even co-workers) tend to look down and disparage the writer for being one.

There are many reasons for this. Mostly, it’s because of ignorance and jealousy.

Ignorance because writing is an art-form  in addition to a highly disciplined craft which many people have no relationship with even as readers (if they read at all).

For them, It’s an otherworldly lifestyle that is still riddled with myths of drunken or drug-addled or suicidal or libidinous writers whose ethics and behaviors are so off the charts that by association, you too will be looked on with suspicion and even fear.

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Photo: Victoria Borodinova

The other response is usually jealousy. Maybe they too want to be writers, but have no idea, or time, or the courage to actually try to write.

Really, their reasons are irrelevant.

What is relevant is whether they are setting any emotional and psychological limits on you because of who you are and what you are doing.

In that case, it’s the writer who has to enforce their protective inner boundaries.


It would be great if you could avoid and cut-off all the naysayers and downer-types, but if they live with you or work with you at your so called “real” job, then it’s hard to shun them or cut them off completely.

Here are some coping strategies for those you must keep in your life but who don’t understand your need to write:


–Don’t talk about your writing. If they ask (and they might just to goad you), simply say you are still plugging away and change the subject.

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Graphic: Pete Linforth

–Don’t share your work, especially the early drafts. If they persist in asking to see, tell them it’s a mere rough draft, and like the batter of a cake, is not yet ready for the table (food metaphors are very relatable to most people).


–When you need to disappear to write, just say you are taking a short break and you’ll be back soon. Or it that’s too insulting to them, or complicated to fathom, tell them you need a nap.


–If that doesn’t work, then block out time to physically take yourself away from your surroundings to write and go there. Libraries, cafes, and cars are safe havens.


–Find a community to share your work with: a Facebook group, a writing class or group, another writer friend. Check out the bookstores, libraries or go online to find others doing and writing the things you are.

It’s almost as though you are having a secret affair, or a double-life, and in a way you are.

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Grapic: Michael Treu

No wonder you have to withhold this part of you. You have no choice when it’s imperative to protect your writing if you are being ambushed and even humiliated for thinking you can write.

It’s your life and your soul too.

You can co-exist with others who have no interest or understanding of this need to write. But only if you realize their limitations and your priorities, and then balance the two.

Writing Wisdom:

“Writing is a solitary occupation. Family, friends, and society are the natural enemies of the writer. He must be alone, uninterrupted, and slightly savage if he is to sustain and complete an undertaking.” –Jessamyn West, American Fiction Writer.

Cheers, Irene

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We’ve all seen or heard self-help gurus listing (usually the magic number of seven) the highly effective habits of professional people and how they achieve their many successes in business, fitness, love, or life.

I’m attracted to those books and videos and I try to apply some of their advice to my writing life which I consider as important and vital as any profession.

When it comes to distilling the practical wisdom, it’s really all about common sense and taking care of yourself so that you are productive, alert, and happy.

Ah, happiness…

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Photo by Ryan McGuire

The happiness factor is the essential ingredient in much of the advice I hear mentioned by these life coaches.

Happiness is a good thing for writers too.  It serves as a healthy counterweight against the myth that we must suffer for our art in order to be creative. Or vice-versa.

I always disliked the “suffering artist” syndrome. Sure, we are aware that creatives are prone to alcoholism and substance abuse, depression, poverty and heartbreak. We assume it’s normal for them in order to be great.


Being dysfunctional is not all a prerequisite to creativity. True writers and artists and musicians and all creative types are the most disciplined, focused, conscientious people in order to achieve the spectacular things they do.

And yes, some do exhibit negative traits—they’re human.

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Photo by John Hain

Creatives don’t own a patent on those bad behaviors. Every profession has their share of dysfunctional types.

That’s why self-help books sell so well! That’s why we all buy them and try to change our ways to be better and more successful people whatever we do for a living.

I’m no different. I have bookshelves dedicated to self-helpness.

Over the years, I’ve made several lists highlighting positive traits and approaches that will fuel and support my creative nature.

Here is my personal list of what I found to be the most helpful in maintaining my focus and passion for writing no matter how negative I feel, or how dismissive others are of my feelings and my work.


1.Get enough sleep. Seriously. In my college days, I was able to pull all-nighters when studying for tests, and even slip in socializing time with friends without an ounce of drowsiness, until I crashed and fell ill from lack of sleep. Now in my wiser older years, I value sleep and fully appreciate its rejuvenating and replenishing powers. Sleep is a great healer and will protect your immune system as well as relax your nerves so that you are more imaginative and creative. Try to get at least 6 hours or more if you can. Naps are great too. I take several and have learned how to get in 10 minutes of deep sleep no matter where I am (usually at airports when travelling).

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Photo by Divily

2.Eat well. Food is also fuel. A lot of food isn’t necessary, but it should be highly nutritious and energizing. When I write, I like to snack, so instead of empty calorie candy bars, I will nibble on fresh fruits and nuts and find that I am able to spend more time at the desk writing instead of thinking about my stomach. Moderate your meals too—heavy ones might make you drowsy and less productive. Little portions throughout the day might be the best, but it’s up to you.

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Photo by Sabine Mondestin

3.Exercise. If you are sitting for long hours in front of a screen, or writing on paper, get up at 15 minute intervals and move. I like to stretch and do a few dance steps before hopping back on the chair and writing. Tai chi or yoga moves are great too—just a few. Also, brisk walks are wonderful especially when feeling blocked. The idea is to prevent your muscles and brain from ossification and stagnation when writing for long stretches of time.

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4.Connect with loved ones and friends. Take a break and reconnect with people who love you and you enjoy being with. You don’t have to tell them what you are working on especially if they don’t really understand your life as a writer. But take time for positive moments like  watching a comedy show together for a while. Or playing a game. Phone calls are very nurturing too.


5.Read. Take a reading break and read the things you enjoy. If it’s fiction, then even better—exploring what other writers you admire achieve in their stories will help propel your own writing. I like to break up my writing time by reading five pages each of the many novels and non-fiction books I am currently reading at once in between writing my own. It’s one way I get ahead plus I find it stimulating for my own ideas.

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Photo by Gino Crescoli

6.Time yourself. We’re all busy especially with other jobs, and family, and daily living things to take care of. If writing time is a constraint, then set aside an hour or so on a timer and give yourself permission to write for that designated time period. I like to block out an hour of time especially for the difficult things I’m writing, and then I’ll take a break, and then back to writing with a timer as needed. So much can be accomplished! Even if you are sitting in front of the screen without a thought, you are physically there and committed while waiting for the muse. Often something will happen. Just show up for the scheduled appointment and don’t leave until the buzzer sounds off.


7.Rewards. It’s tough writing alone. It’s doubly hard when no one is emotionally or financially supporting you to do it. Be good to yourself and reward yourself after you put in a solid attempt—a chapter, an outline, a novel. Even a title! Make a list of things to reward yourselves with—ice cream? A new pair of socks? A new car (well, that’s if you sell your book for big bucks—could happen!).  Whatever and however it’s done, allow yourself the wonderful privileges of acknowledging the hard work you put in.

Hope this is helpful. Feel free to create your own lists to determine what helps and that will catapult and sustain you into successful writing time.

However you create your lists, the basic rule is to simply write.

Writing Wisdom:

“Be satisfied with success in even the smallest matter, and think that even such a result is no trifle.” —Marcus Aurelius, Roman Emperor, Philosopher, Writer.

Cheers, Irene

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THE MIDWIFE'S TALE jpg“…Except for icons or Renaissance paintings, and in unpopular non-canonical texts, the midwife at the Nativity is not depicted, never remembered or acknowledged, not even in a cheerful Christmas carol. Oh, there are plenty of mentions of cows and donkeys who are supposedly given the gift of speech on that night—maybe they alone talked about the midwife’s role among themselves, but no one else seems to…” From THE MIDWIFE’S  TALE: A CHRISTMAS STORY.

Unlike the narrator in my story, I am not a midwife. But after years of traditional Nativity stories and crèches and cards and carols, the emphasis has always been that Mary, Jesus’ Mother, was visited and surrounded by men—shepherds and Kings—after that miraculous birth occurred so long ago.

Where were the women during the birth?

Surely at least one woman was on the scene. Birthing children was and still is a exclusively female-oriented event in many cultures, and the midwife would have been the very first witness to Jesus’ appearance on earth.

Unless she was completely alone except for Joseph, her elderly husband to help her deliver the child, it seemed improbable that Mary would not have at least one or two women helping her with the birth.

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Typical Nativity creche figurines (Mary is the only woman). Photo: Alexas Fotos

Growing up, I used to wonder why the midwife never figured at all in any of the Nativity stories, but quickly dismissed her absence because of the prevalence of the other important male characters who were always mentioned and given the spotlight.

Recently, I received a postcard with a replica of an icon from Eastern Europe. I grew up with icons because of my Ukrainian heritage—and so was familiar with the depictions.

But this time, I did a double-take and felt compelled to seriously examine the postcard’s imagery.

On it were the familiar representations of several scenes of the Nativity with a large figure of Mary in the center, and near her, the swaddled baby Jesus in a manger.

Around the central figure of Mary are other smaller scenes indicating several related events: an angel appearing to the shepherds, the Three Kings with their gifts, and of Joseph being tempted by a shepherd (who is really the devil). All very typical in Eastern iconography depicting the Nativity.

But there was another scene painted on the icon. It was a replica of a woman—not Mary—about to wash the infant Jesus in a basin of water.

The midwife!


I never paid attention to her presence on an icon before and I  had to search for her identity and for any biblical sources about her.

Well, typically there wasn’t much at all. However, I did find an unlikely mention of a midwife in a non-canonical text (sources not condoned by traditional Christian churches) called the Gospel of James (Jesus’ brother most likely).

In it, Joseph hides Mary’s “disgrace” as he called it, by having her stay in the cave while he finds a midwife named Salome who does not believe that Mary is a virgin given her condition. That is, until Salome physically examines her.

Afterwards, a miracle of sorts occurs after Salome loses her hand, but it is later restored when holding the infant Jesus.

I didn’t care for this story at all. It’s inelegant, humiliating, and has no real feminine reality as to how women would act and interact in this type of scenario.

And so I made up my own version.

In my book, Joseph has a dream and is told to search for a midwife in the marketplace in Bethlehem. Eventually, he finds her although she is not Semitic, nor local, but rather is a migrant from one of the Slavic tribes and yes, probably from ancient Ukraine.

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She enlists her helpers in the midwife mission for Mary’s delivery, dismisses Joseph who is sent away during the birth, and aides Mary to birth  in the ways that child-bearing was done in those times, and all accomplished in that cave which is more historically accurate than a stable, and far more preferable as a setting for my story version.


I did however want to keep some type of miracle occurring for the midwife, but like any good fiction writer, I included one with a twist of my own.

Because my midwife was a pagan, with her own cultural rituals that she brought with her to Bethlehem from her homeland in the steppes, she had the opportunity to practice her particular skill of soothsaying and prophecy and of course she correctly predicted Jesus’ path.

But she was also given a miracle in return for helping Mary and Joseph and in that plot twist, I hoped to convey the message of universal compassion: the midwife’s sympathy towards the stranded Holy Family and eventually, Jesus’ towards the midwife.

For any writer, it’s always risky to take on a beloved story that is so ingrained in people’s lives and religions, but rather than changing the overall Nativity story, my aim was to enlarge it by one more person who was absolutely present that particular night.

THE MIDWIFE’S TALE: A CHRISTMAS STORY by Irene Zabytko is now available on and

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Irene Zabytko is the author of the novel about Chornobyl, THE SKY UNWASHED, the short story collection, WHEN LUBA LEAVES HOME and the writing guidebook THE FICTION PRESCRIPTION.

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Whenever I come across a book sale—whether real or virtual, I sometimes will explore and even buy a book because I like its cover.

Like anything else that is marketable in our visually-hypnotic, consumer-oriented world, the way a book appears on its front cover is very important in attracting the right customer.

Genre books are easy to spot. Sci-fi book covers will usually show aliens or humans usually in space uniforms wandering on an inhabitable planet.

Harry Potter fans will have the very famous boy and his glasses staring out in his usual puzzled expression surrounded by his cohorts and the odd owl or two.

Detective fiction will most likely have the most lurid goriest covers, often with a victim spouting blood from a bludgeoned body. Ghost stories will of course will reveal ghosts looming over a cemetery, or sometimes mysterious hand-prints all over a deserted room.

And yes, romance novels will have the classic gorgeous couple embracing—she with the windswept hair and low-cut bodice, he with the masculine arm muscles and square-jawed determined expression.

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Literary novels are harder to design covers for because the stories are not so obvious in their content.

It helps to place a well-crafted and very short summary and a blurb somewhere on the dust-jacket alerting the reader what the book is about unless it’s already a famous classic.

But regardless, the cover design is still very important.

If your book is published by a large publisher, most likely the writer had nothing to do with the book cover design.

Publishers are very regimented in their production departments and will usually work with designers on staff who create the cover with specific traits that will distinguish their imprint and brand.

Small press publishers may allow the writer to influence the cover if that is negotiated in the contract. One of my writer friends, Alexander J. Motyl who is also a painter, created the cover for his book that was published by a small press and was perfect for his novel VOVOCHKA about Vladimir Putin’s best friend.

VOVOCHKA the true confessions of Vladimir Putin's Best Friend and Confidant by AJ Motyl

If a book designer is given the task of creating the cover, then hopefully they have actually read your book and can pull out some key scenes or characters to better devise a compatible cover.

But if you are a self-publishing author, then you have all the freedom to design the best cover for your work.

Alas, writers are not necessarily visual artists. And so, if this is your dilemma, then perhaps start with researching other book covers (indie and ones from publishers) to help determine your aesthetic tastes.

You’ll discover that there are various trends in publishing books.

For instance, you might notice that static shoes tend to appear in a lot of covers as in these bestsellers:


Maybe it started with THE WIZARD OF OZ and the continuous charm of the ruby slippers, but frankly, I find shoes on book covers way overdone and boring even though I really liked and enjoyed reading both these books pictured above.

Another trend is to simply use a lot of printed words without pictures, but arranged in more random ways as in all of Jonathan Safran Foer’s books:


Provocative graphics and photography are also good choices in book design, but again it should somehow relate to the story content.

Although I loved CATCHER IN THE RYE, I never quite understood the odd graphic on its original cover but I admit, it’s more eye-catching than the version I bought long ago with its minimalist approach:


As an indie author, I too had to select a cover for my short story as book, THE MIDWIFE’S TALE: A CHRISTMAS STORY. I don’t have very much artistic skill, but thanks to a wonderful and free online design tool, called Canva (, I was able to do it all in under an hour.

With Canva you can choose their free or paid-for images and upload them into the dimensions of  a book cover. You can then play with print fonts and colors.

Give it a try.


For my book, I was able to find a great painting from the 17th century that fit perfectly. Plus, it was public domain, and so I didn’t have to obtain copyright permission (be careful with this sort of thing when selecting your images).

For the text headings, I experimented with Canva’s many fonts and background colors (all free) and voila!  A lovely cover!

It was a lot of fun to create, and I was not only pleased but amazed at how easy it was and how fabulous the cover looked (my opinion anyway).

Canva is also terrific for other things like social media posts, brochures, invitations etc. Highly recommended!

And while you are discovering the art and craft of book covers, here are a few more helpful articles to consider:

From Canva:

From Dave Chesson, an expert on Kindle:

From Joel Friedlander, who not only gives great advice, but also judges book covers:

Writing Wisdom:

“What is written beneath this heavy handsome book cover will count, so sayeth this cover.”—Anne Rice, American Novelist.

Cheers, Irene

In time for the holidays, and for a limited time–my latest short story, THE MIDWIFE’S TALE: A CHRISTMAS STORY.


Before the Three Kings and the Shepherds, there was another witness to the Nativity—The Midwife. And she has her own version of that miraculous night and historical time. A perfect short story gift for the holidays and beyond.

Available in paperback, E-book, and PDF formats.

Read more  about THE MIDWIFE’S TALE
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